Why Is it hard to stay married

HARD TO STAY MARRIED

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I'm 39 years old! My parents got married in the 1960's and where married for 25 years before getting divorced. You do not hear about people being married that long any more.Unless they were married back then. You will be lucky if you last 3 years. I have heard that if you get past the 5 year mark you might make it. But what does make it mean another year. It's not 1960 it's 2015 and women are independent they do not need a man. Women now a days are making as much or more than men do. So forget the they need me for money! They can go make it on their own. Now the compaine part is still their no one really want to go through life alone. And having a family is still on the list of things most people in the world want. 

WHY GET A DIVORCE

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  One word on why people get a divorce Time! It takes two people to make a household run, so you do not have the time to spend together therefore you grow apart. And if you try and say you work I will stay home and take care of the kids. That might work for a little while but the person that goes out and works is going to find a reason to say it's not fair. Or the one staying home is going to feel guilty that they are not bring in money to help pay the bills or buy things the two of  you want. When in reality staying home and taking care of the children is hard work.                   I believe the divorce rate is over 50% for the first marriage over 75% for the second marriage and over 90% on the 3rd marriage. So if your first marriage does not work why do it again. If you need to get involved in another relationship don't get married. Don't even live together. When their are kids involved you will always have to deal with the ex-husband or the ex-wife. Which is going to do nothing but cause problems in your relationship. And the children are most important. This is all my advice every body is different having a stepfather can be a great thing especially when the real father is no where to be found. But there is a fine line when being a step-parent. Speaking from experience it was not really a hard job for me I have 3 step daughters and no matter what happens with my wife and I hopefully I can always be a part of my step-daughters lives. I enjoyed every minute of it. Not saying it was not hard and did not cause my wife and i to disagree on certain things. But that is parenting. We also have a child together and I found us argueing over the same things. And I don't think that is a bad thing. It takes two to raise a child I believe when you have two adults looking out for the best interest of the child thats a good thing. Watch this video before you even think about a divorce.This information is better than any marriage counseler! STOP DIVORCE! BE HAPPY!